Survey

Men’s Church Attendance Survey Draft

As part of our effort to improve attendance and create activities which will attract men and their families back to church, a survey is planned to learn what is likely to cause men to attend. This is the first draft. If you have suggestions, please contact us.

Screening / Background

  1. What is your age?
  • Under 25
  • 25–34
  • 35–44
  • 45–54
  • 55–64
  • 65–74
  • 75+

  1. Which best describes you?
  • Single
  • Married
  • Divorced
  • Widowed
  • Separated
  • In a committed relationship

  1. Do you have children?
  • Yes, living at home
  • Yes, grown children
  • No

  1. Which best describes your current religious identity?
  • Christian
  • Jewish
  • Muslim
  • Hindu
  • Buddhist
  • Spiritual but not religious
  • Agnostic
  • Atheist
  • No particular religion
  • Other


Current Attendance

  1. How often do you currently attend church or religious services?
  • Weekly or more
  • Two or three times per month
  • Monthly
  • A few times per year
  • Rarely
  • Never

  1. Has your attendance changed in the past five years?
  • I attend more often
  • About the same
  • I attend less often
  • I stopped attending
  • I never attended regularly

  1. Do you participate in religious services online or by TV?
  • Weekly
  • Monthly
  • Occasionally
  • Rarely
  • Never

Reasons for Attending

  1. If you attend church or religious services, what are your main reasons? Check all that apply.
  • Worship / relationship with God
  • Habit or tradition
  • Family expectation
  • Marriage or children
  • Friendship / community
  • Moral guidance
  • Practical teaching
  • Music
  • Service opportunities
  • Emotional support
  • A sense of purpose
  • Other
  1. What do you personally get from attending?
  • Strong benefit
  • Some benefit
  • Little benefit
  • No benefit
  • Not applicable

  1. What benefits matter most to you?
  • Spiritual growth
  • Better marriage / relationships
  • Better fatherhood
  • Friendship with other men
  • Guidance for life decisions
  • Emotional strength
  • Service to others
  • Intellectual learning
  • Moral accountability
  • Peace / hope
  • Other

Reasons for Not Attending

  1. If you do not attend regularly, why not? Check all that apply.
  • I do not believe in God
  • I believe in God but not organized religion
  • I had a bad church experience
  • Church feels irrelevant to my life
  • I do not feel welcome
  • I disagree with church politics
  • I disagree with church teachings
  • I find services boring
  • I am too busy
  • Sunday morning is difficult
  • My spouse/family does not attend
  • I do not know anyone there
  • I feel judged
  • I prefer private spirituality
  • Health or mobility issues
  • Other

  1. What would make church more meaningful to you?
  • More practical teaching
  • More honest discussion
  • Less politics
  • Better music
  • Smaller groups
  • More service projects
  • Better men’s ministry
  • More intellectual depth
  • More openness to questions and doubt
  • More focus on family and relationships
  • More focus on real-life struggles
  • Other
  1. Have you ever left a church?
  • Yes
  • No
  1. If yes, what was the main reason?
  • Conflict
  • Leadership issue
  • Divorce / family change
  • Doctrinal disagreement
  • Political disagreement
  • Felt ignored or unneeded
  • Scandal or hypocrisy
  • Moved away
  • Lost faith
  • Other

Men-Specific Questions

  1. Do you think churches understand the real pressures men face?
  • Very well
  • Somewhat
  • Not very well
  • Not at all
  • Not sure

  1. Which issues would you most want discussed with other men?
  • Marriage
  • Fatherhood
  • Work / retirement
  • Money pressure
  • Loneliness
  • Anger
  • Sexual temptation / pornography
  • Addiction
  • Grief
  • Aging
  • Purpose
  • Prayer
  • Faith and doubt
  • Friendship
  • Service
  • Other
  1. What format would you be most likely to attend?
  • Sunday worship
  • Men’s breakfast
  • Small discussion group
  • Bible study
  • Service project
  • Retreat
  • Online short message
  • Podcast / audio reflection
  • One-on-one mentoring
  • Interfaith men’s conversation
  • Social gathering with spiritual discussion
  • Other

  1. Would you attend a men’s group that was spiritual but not tied to formal church membership?
  • Yes
  • Maybe
  • No
  • Not sure
  1. What would make you trust a men’s spiritual group?
  • Honest conversation
  • Confidentiality
  • No pressure
  • Practical topics
  • Strong leadership
  • Clear Christian teaching
  • Openness to questions
  • Service to others
  • Friendship
  • Other

  1. In one sentence, what do churches most need to understand about men today?