Men’s Church Attendance Survey Draft
As part of our effort to improve attendance and create activities which will attract men and their families back to church, a survey is planned to learn what is likely to cause men to attend. This is the first draft. If you have suggestions, please contact us.
Screening / Background
- What is your age?
- Under 25
- 25–34
- 35–44
- 45–54
- 55–64
- 65–74
- 75+
- Which best describes you?
- Single
- Married
- Divorced
- Widowed
- Separated
- In a committed relationship
- Do you have children?
- Yes, living at home
- Yes, grown children
- No
- Which best describes your current religious identity?
- Christian
- Jewish
- Muslim
- Hindu
- Buddhist
- Spiritual but not religious
- Agnostic
- Atheist
- No particular religion
- Other
Current Attendance
- How often do you currently attend church or religious services?
- Weekly or more
- Two or three times per month
- Monthly
- A few times per year
- Rarely
- Never
- Has your attendance changed in the past five years?
- I attend more often
- About the same
- I attend less often
- I stopped attending
- I never attended regularly
- Do you participate in religious services online or by TV?
- Weekly
- Monthly
- Occasionally
- Rarely
- Never
Reasons for Attending
- If you attend church or religious services, what are your main reasons? Check all that apply.
- Worship / relationship with God
- Habit or tradition
- Family expectation
- Marriage or children
- Friendship / community
- Moral guidance
- Practical teaching
- Music
- Service opportunities
- Emotional support
- A sense of purpose
- Other
- What do you personally get from attending?
- Strong benefit
- Some benefit
- Little benefit
- No benefit
- Not applicable
- What benefits matter most to you?
- Spiritual growth
- Better marriage / relationships
- Better fatherhood
- Friendship with other men
- Guidance for life decisions
- Emotional strength
- Service to others
- Intellectual learning
- Moral accountability
- Peace / hope
- Other
Reasons for Not Attending
- If you do not attend regularly, why not? Check all that apply.
- I do not believe in God
- I believe in God but not organized religion
- I had a bad church experience
- Church feels irrelevant to my life
- I do not feel welcome
- I disagree with church politics
- I disagree with church teachings
- I find services boring
- I am too busy
- Sunday morning is difficult
- My spouse/family does not attend
- I do not know anyone there
- I feel judged
- I prefer private spirituality
- Health or mobility issues
- Other
- What would make church more meaningful to you?
- More practical teaching
- More honest discussion
- Less politics
- Better music
- Smaller groups
- More service projects
- Better men’s ministry
- More intellectual depth
- More openness to questions and doubt
- More focus on family and relationships
- More focus on real-life struggles
- Other
- Have you ever left a church?
- Yes
- No
- If yes, what was the main reason?
- Conflict
- Leadership issue
- Divorce / family change
- Doctrinal disagreement
- Political disagreement
- Felt ignored or unneeded
- Scandal or hypocrisy
- Moved away
- Lost faith
- Other
Men-Specific Questions
- Do you think churches understand the real pressures men face?
- Very well
- Somewhat
- Not very well
- Not at all
- Not sure
- Which issues would you most want discussed with other men?
- Marriage
- Fatherhood
- Work / retirement
- Money pressure
- Loneliness
- Anger
- Sexual temptation / pornography
- Addiction
- Grief
- Aging
- Purpose
- Prayer
- Faith and doubt
- Friendship
- Service
- Other
- What format would you be most likely to attend?
- Sunday worship
- Men’s breakfast
- Small discussion group
- Bible study
- Service project
- Retreat
- Online short message
- Podcast / audio reflection
- One-on-one mentoring
- Interfaith men’s conversation
- Social gathering with spiritual discussion
- Other
- Would you attend a men’s group that was spiritual but not tied to formal church membership?
- Yes
- Maybe
- No
- Not sure
- What would make you trust a men’s spiritual group?
- Honest conversation
- Confidentiality
- No pressure
- Practical topics
- Strong leadership
- Clear Christian teaching
- Openness to questions
- Service to others
- Friendship
- Other
- In one sentence, what do churches most need to understand about men today?
